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[bzarcher]

We'll say this is for everyone, but two people in particular.

Next time you feel the need to randomly interject "I'm the ugliest person in the world, so convince me otherwise", or various news articles of animal cruelty or similar things while talking to me to 'help me feel better',

Please feel free to FUCK OFF

I'm getting tired of being everyone's bellweather. I'm tired of being your sponge for guilt, or reassurance, or to justify yourself by showing me how horrid the world is so I will agree with you.

In particular, the two women who have done this within 30 seconds of each other, lemme make something perfectly clear. I'm not your boyfriend/lover/fiancee/father/brother. You seem to be confusing me with such.

Yes, I am your friend. But you are starting to really fucking push it. Particularly the one who keeps asking me to justify her beauty/cuteness/selfimage. I'm sick of it when you come to my room to harass Ben and get me to do it at school, and I'm not fucking putting up with it here.

As far as I am concerned, skarlette is one of the most beautiful women in the world and the rest of you are coming in at pales, anyhow. She is a wonderful, kind, delighting woman who is there for me, I am there for her, and she doesn't take advantage of me to get sympathy or to justify behavior. She's been honest as long as I have know her, and with a heart deep as the seas.

I would do anything in the world for her, and yet all she has ever asked is that I be myself. And I love her with all my heart. Always.

I think some of you should consider looking her up and taking lessons.

Comments

[chaoticgoodnik.livejournal.com]

> I'm tired of being your sponge for guilt, or reassurance, or to justify yourself by showing me how horrid the world is so I will agree with you.

I am so glad to hear you say that. :)

[demeterschild.livejournal.com]

So am I.

Even if you're yelling at me this time.

Huh?

[heatherbeast.livejournal.com]

O.O

Wow. Well, glad to see that you actually have a breaking point. Shame you didn't exercise it earlier, you're too incredibly nice for your own good sometimes.

See you around, you crazy person. procyon8 mentioned that you would possibly be joining us on either the 29th or 30th. Is this so, or did you have to reschedule? It certainly would be great to just hang out and chill with someone who likes us enough to drive an insane amount of time to meet up. Whee. Even if not, there's always BotCon. Or M4.4.

We like you, darnit!

Re: Huh?

[bzarcher.livejournal.com]

*blushes* Yes, I do have a breaking point. I just try not to let things get that bad.

I do intend to come down on the 29th if at all possible, as I'm gonna see you guys and then head up to Dayton until the New Year. And Botcon, and...well...I dunno about 4.4, but we'll see. :D

*hugs* I know you like me. I like me too, I'm finding.

Re: Huh?

[tigerfox.livejournal.com]

Come to 4.4, if you can! Lots of fun, and maybe we'll have another food-fight withing thirty minutes of arriving. Unless, of course, a select few of those already there decide to nail you with waterguns. :>

And no matter what people say, you're a great friend both inside and out.

Re: Huh?

[bzarcher.livejournal.com]

I'll see what I can do. :D A lot of it depends on the whole "where am I working after college" thing.